It can be very frustrating trying to get your boyfriend back when you have tried everything you can think of. If you have begged and pleaded with him and that doesn’t seem to be working it might be time to try a new approach. There isn’t one set formula for knowing ”how to get back a boyfriend”. Sometimes you need to be willing to try something new.
Calling him 7 or 8 times a day and leaving messages on his answering machine is the wrong approach. The last thing you want to do is come across as being desperate. As much as you want him back he isn’t going to come around until HE’S ready. Bugging him constantly will not make that happen any faster.
Checking in with him occasionally is fine but don’t get into a long discussion and drag up the same old issues that you were fighting about before. Give him a little space. Both of you need some time to calm down and start thinking rationally again.
If you do talk to him and see that your conversation is going in the wrong direction say something like: “ I know that this is a sore subject right now. I didn’t call to argue. I just wanted to say hi and let you know that I still care for you so much. I'm willing to give you as much time as you need to work things out for yourself”.
Following him around and stalking are not smart ”ways to get your ex boyfriend back”. If he sees you doing this he is going to distance himself from you even more. A lot times it is almost impossible to avoid being together at all in social settings. Be kind and gracious if that happens but display a certain degree of aloofness. The mystery will drive him crazy and make him wonder what you are up to!
The main thing that you want to accomplish with all of this is to give your ex boyfriend an opportunity to make a move. You have to let him come back to you on his own terms to some degree and be willing to compromise if necessary. Take some time to think about what you may have done wrong to cause the break up. There will be plenty of time and opportunities to work out the other issues later on.
If you come across as being childish or scheming this is going to turn him off even more. Be sure to act like an adult and expect him to do the same. A relationship can’t be built again if you don’t trust and respect each other.
A final word of advice: be patient. Understand that a break from each other might not be such a bad thing after all. You may have had some issues that couldn’t be dealt with any other way. Absence does make the heart grow fonder and make you appreciate each other more!
Calling him 7 or 8 times a day and leaving messages on his answering machine is the wrong approach. The last thing you want to do is come across as being desperate. As much as you want him back he isn’t going to come around until HE’S ready. Bugging him constantly will not make that happen any faster.
Checking in with him occasionally is fine but don’t get into a long discussion and drag up the same old issues that you were fighting about before. Give him a little space. Both of you need some time to calm down and start thinking rationally again.
If you do talk to him and see that your conversation is going in the wrong direction say something like: “ I know that this is a sore subject right now. I didn’t call to argue. I just wanted to say hi and let you know that I still care for you so much. I'm willing to give you as much time as you need to work things out for yourself”.
Following him around and stalking are not smart ”ways to get your ex boyfriend back”. If he sees you doing this he is going to distance himself from you even more. A lot times it is almost impossible to avoid being together at all in social settings. Be kind and gracious if that happens but display a certain degree of aloofness. The mystery will drive him crazy and make him wonder what you are up to!
The main thing that you want to accomplish with all of this is to give your ex boyfriend an opportunity to make a move. You have to let him come back to you on his own terms to some degree and be willing to compromise if necessary. Take some time to think about what you may have done wrong to cause the break up. There will be plenty of time and opportunities to work out the other issues later on.
If you come across as being childish or scheming this is going to turn him off even more. Be sure to act like an adult and expect him to do the same. A relationship can’t be built again if you don’t trust and respect each other.
A final word of advice: be patient. Understand that a break from each other might not be such a bad thing after all. You may have had some issues that couldn’t be dealt with any other way. Absence does make the heart grow fonder and make you appreciate each other more!
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