Different couples handle a pending divorce in their own ways. Knowing ”how to stop your divorce” is a question that you may be dealing with. Rest assured, there is always hope if you both of you are willing to work at it.
Before you can even think about stopping a divorce you must convince the other person to give the relationship another chance. If you are constantly fighting, then someone has to be the adult and say "this is not a good time to talk about this" or "tell me why you are feeling that way in a normal tone". This may seem ackward at first but neither of you are going to make any progress if you can't talk rationally.
The worst thing you can do is to beg the other person to keep trying if they aren’t willing. YOU end up just getting more frustrated and resentful. Give them a break for a little while and let cooler heads prevail.
Many, many couples are in the last legal stages of divorce when they realize it’s not such a good idea. When the reality finally sinks in they start having second thoughts. All of a sudden reconciliation doesn’t seem so impossible. Ask any couple that has been through a divorce and they will tell you to do everything you can to avoid it.
You can often save your relationship with a professional counselor or a variety of wonderful "relationship sources on the internet". Make the time and effort to check them out. Once you are divorced there is no going back. Keep a journal of what you are feeling each day and write down your thoughts. Putting those things on paper helps so many people sort through their emotions.
If you are BOTH willing to do what the counselor tells you the odds are pretty good it can be a success. Having said that, there isn’t much hope if one or the other of you are not totally committed to being flexible and taking the whole process seriously. Over time, you should be able to make the other person see why they fell in love with you in the first place.
The question that you both have to ask yourselves is: “will both of us REALLY be happier being alone again”? It is never something to be taken lightly. The fighting may go away but you will replace it with a sense of grief that you have failed. It’s so much better to get help as soon as possible.
If you succeed in stopping the divorce, you must make a promise to each other that you will both work through your problems and never think about it again. Knowing ”how to avoid divorce” means neither of you will ever consider it as a solution to your problems.
Find the will to succeed and you will be successful. Failure is not an option when you open yourself up to the wounds and pain of divorce. Do whatever it takes to make sure it never happens. Instead of fighting WITH each other vow that you will fight FOR each other. You will never regret saving your relationship.
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