Will the best relationship books help me get my guy back?

Even with the best relationship book you can find trying to reconcile with your man can be extremely difficult. Unfortunately, you are kind of "hanging in the wind" when it comes to getting advice. You watch all of the shows on TV like Dr. Phil. In the end, it all boils down to your determination.

Friends and family hate to see you struggling on your own. They give you their "two cents worth" and you are more confused than ever. Trying to figure out men in general has ALWAYS been a challenge. Just when you think you have them figured out they throw you a "curve ball" and you are back to square one.

A couple of things might be worth keeping in mind at a time like this.

Books on marriage and relationships are great IF you use the information. You are probably going to have to do a lot of reading though. But, no one ever said getting him back was going to be easy.

The best advice you will probably ever get is to take time to get your emotions under control. Give each other a break if you have to and stay away from him for the time being if necessary. You are simply not going to accomplish anything right now if you spend all your time screaming at each other.

The other thing you have to keep in mind is that guys think differently. If you tell them something is white they assume it's white. Conversely, women might wonder what shade of white! Somehow, you have to get on the same wave length with them.

If you cheated on him, he was obviously at fault to some degree for not meeting your needs. If he cheated on you, then you need to take some of the blame. Unfortunately, guys can just be pigs sometimes (there is no other way to say it). They always the "grass is greener on the other side of the fence". If you feel like you will never be able to trust him again in this area than it might be time to call it quits.

Be willing to accept what he is able give you (both emotionally and physically) for a little while. In time, most guys eventually come around and try to patch things up if you give them a chance. You can always find out how to improve your marriage instead of walking away if you really try.

what he can give you for the time being. Over time, as you feel comfortable being together again the rest will take care of itself.

Both of you need to say "I'm sorry" and REALLY mean it before the trust can ever be completely restored. Part of being truly sorry is also being willing to change in some areas that you or your boyfriend need to work on. Anything less than that is doomed to failure.

Don't ever give up though until you absolutely have to. After all, you love him and want to be with him again. There are all kinds of marriage help books out there to help you along the way if you need them.

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