Fool proof tips for getting back together with an ex.

OK….it’s happened… you have been dumped! Do you write off the relationship completely or try and get back together somehow? Women in particular are pretty unpredictable. By the way, the majority of the time they are the ones that call things off.

Even though they may have lost their temper and told you to get lost don’t expect an apology right away. She (or he) may have called things off without really thinking about the consequences. Couples break up for every reason imaginable. Your job is to back track, figure out what went wrong and THEN formulate a plan to get back together.

Sometimes, couples break up because one or the other person just gets bored. Men in particular are guilty of not being sensitive to the needs of their women. That doesn’t mean physically guys! If you aren’t taking care of her emotional needs she will eventually find someone that does!

If you want to get back together with your ex she needs to see what she is missing out on by not getting back together. Wear the clothes that she loved to see you in or the cologne that drove her crazy. Keep your appearance up. You have to convince her that you are the best guy out there. She may not think so right now though!

Many gals say that want to be “unique”. You’ll soon realize that they all pretty much share the same mental image of the ideal guy though. So, to become the guy that they all want (and particular your ex wants) you have to start going out with in-demand girls. Not necessarily hot but the ones that all the guys want to be with.

If you see her with a bunch of her friends be a little aloof. Pay attention to her friends. It will drive her crazy!

See how she reacts to you when other guys are around. If they something critical about you does she defend you? If she does then it is pretty obvious that she still has feelings for you. Subtle things like that are the best dumped advice you can find.

A lot of guys don’t realize that there is a power shift when you break up. You may have had the authority before but that has changed. You no longer belong to each other exclusively. You are both independent of each other now and able to come and go as you please.

You may have to change some things about yourself to get her back in your life. Maybe, she kept bringing something up that was a problem and you just ignored her. You can’t afford to go on like that if you want to patch up the relationship.

Become the guy that all the girls want to date. If you don’t have a bevy of girls at your fingertips to call you might try an online matchmaking site to make some new acquaintances! A little jealousy isn’t necessarily a bad thing at a time like this! You'll find an excellent dating site on this blog if you are interested.

If these things don’t work then you will probably have to accept the reality that she has moved on. It’s hard not to feel angry, bitter and rejected at a time like this. Just remember that the greatest blessings in life sometimes happen when the situation seems the bleakest!