After adjusting to the shock of a break up we are often bewildered and confused. It seems like your whole world has fallen apart. Just getting out of bed in the morning is a challenge. We all stumble through tough times in our lives. This has to be one of the worst of them.
How to avoid divorce now becomes the goal in your life. If you were dating it’s time to look at what the relationship has been. Is it really worth going back? Sitting at home and crying yourself to sleep isn’t the way to fix the problem. So what do you do?
Getting back together again works best by not calling your ex constantly.
If anything this just makes things worse. Our natural reaction is to try and fix the problem right away. It is far more productive to let the situation calm down a little bit first. Both of you have been through a very traumatic experience. Give it some time before making any drastic attempts to reconcile.
Getting back together advice means waiting for the right time to get together.
Once you have both had a chance to cool down and do a little self reflection it’s time to pick a date, time and place. Pick a venue that you both enjoyed before the break up. Try and remember a place that had good memories for you. Sometimes, just going to the park and hanging out together with no strings attached is a great idea. Don’t expect too much at first.
Getting back my ex doesn't start with assigning blame at this point.
There is probably plenty of blame to go around. Be willing to accept responsibility for what you did wrong even if the other person isn’t ready for that yet. They will come around eventually.
Make sure you get off on the right foot by focusing on the positives and not the negatives as much as possible. Ask each other what they thought went wrong and be willing to listen.
Try not to get defensive (as hard as that may be) if they bring up a sore subject. If you stick with that kind of a plan your chances will be much better of getting back together after a breakup
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